Wednesday, March 21, 2007

Getting Rid of Feelings of Inadequacy

Feelings of inadequacy are experienced by many people across the world. This is when a person feels as if their personal worth is somehow lower than everyone else’s, or that they are unable to accomplish a given task due to incompetence. This is a crippling problem. Even if someone is perfectly capable of doing something, feelings of inadequacy will lead them to feel that they are not capable of doing it. So if you suffer from this, you should do everything you can to fix it. Even if the feelings are all in your head, it can still affect your actual performance in social situations and at work.

Talking to a professional could be the best move you can make. Professional psychiatrists have dealt with literally hundreds of people who are dealing with the same problems as you. You may be reluctant to pay a visit to one, but he or she could offer you advice that totally changes your outlook on life. Usually the sessions will be very short, and they will give you advice on how you can not only improve your life, but also the way you think about your life. It is an invaluable service to anyone suffering from feelings such as inadequacy.

If you don’t feel you have reached the point at which professional help is necessary yet, you can try to cure it yourself. It can work wonders to get involved with your community. If you are a student, join some clubs or start playing sports. Otherwise, start volunteering to help out at the food bank or the homeless shelter. If you spend your time working towards a noble cause and helping those less fortunate than you, you will feel that your life is being spent in a worthwhile manner. You can inquire at your city hall about what kinds of volunteer positions are available.

Usually a therapist will give you the same advice that you see here. The secret to getting rid of feelings of inadequacy is to do something with your life that you feel is worthwhile. Do you want to fight fires and save lives? Volunteer at your fire station. Do you want a job that is more involved with humans? Become a medical intern. You have many options open to you, and it is foolish to stick with the one that doesn’t seem to be working.

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